There is something special in you others don’t possess

Talk is laid about beauty and handsomeness occasionally. They spend most of their time pondering over make up as source of choice. Some resent persons they think are uglier than them. They judge yet they don’t know how dull or smart they are. You don’t see a special element in you. There also exist the benevolent who resent underrating. Rubbish is the fact some personalities are denied greetings on this ground of physical appearance.

At times these resented figures can be loved to madness by some people seen so special. Do you know why?

In short it’s because specialty not derived by the ignoramus is easy to be derived by this figure. It makes them stick to those persons ever.

To look good, teens and youths chase after beauty. They inject or apply body creams which later may lead to side effects. This may be to alter skin colour given for a purpose. Competition of clothes, shoes, watches, bangles, rings and mobile phones comes in all costly to promote the class in the eyes of others. It’s blasphemy. These can be done to waste money for schooling or do without beddings at home to show off. Men go about wearing earrings which is good for women.

Dressing may lead to prostitution. Especially, this applies to them who blaspheme and like new things to be more civilized. I witnessed this in Bortown, Juba, and Kapoeta where young girls got into such dressing and go about accepting sex in exchange for money to boy friends. The rest of Sudanese towns I have not gone to must be having. In Kenya am in currently, it’s abundant. Poverty may be the main cause of prostitution yet these people never know they were created for a purpose and that they may climb the ladder when the fate twists livelihood.

If one doesn’t have they think they are not humane. Some steal for this matter yet there is something in them others don’t possess. Taking cheap resources, you are still important because something in you will some day find the one who knows it and will pity you. Patience pays.

A friend convinced me, she is beautiful as she is though some people can be more beautiful. Yes, because she knows something in her other people don’t have who are beautiful or handsome is her own gift distinct to herself.

A relative too said to be thin may seem you are poor or if you carry cheaper mobile or wear cheap clothes. I don’t think so. World possessions are not gold. Accounting for dressing; it’s not bad and be proud of your make up. You don’t share with anybody else. Distinction you have can be hidden from those who hate you and shown to those who love you.

Coming to characters, parents and teachers play key roles. Students respect their teachers more than parents.

Why?

A student learns new things from teachers which parents don’t give. A parent who is a teacher cannot teach their children well at home but at school. They remain teachers not parents at school and can’t play roles of a teacher at home because at home they are parents. Manners may not fully be taught by parents. A student taught well goes correcting poorly mannered parents. Teacher gives knowledge which doesn’t wear out. This is why they deserve respect. Comparing educated and uneducated child in my study, educated child can plan their future. They are welcoming while uneducated can be shame to the family. Uneducated can abuse guests or chase them. They are unhygienic too.

Last but not the least; make up is important as it is. Clothes cover nakedness, phones are for communication, watches show time and shoes prevent hurt.

It’s cool to have the best for yourself but don’t ridicule. All people are special the way they are that’s why they don’t luck who to associate with and love them.

There is something distinct you don’t know in you hidden from some people that good people can see and love you.